Making mistakes in daily life activities is said to be something ordinary as even stated in the bible that no man is perfect.

However, as a man, making constant mistakes while approaching a lady is unpardonable as most women find it difficult to comprehend why men keep making the same blunders while approaching them.

While approaching, most men often commit the following mistakes..

1. One’s fear of being rejected.

There are only two sides to every story and the same applies to love proposals. It’s either you get yes or no from the lady you approach. It’s an essential knowledge every man is supposed to know. Facing rejection comes with a lot of ideas and most men turn out to downgrade themselves. Well, that’s not the end of the road if you ask me. As a man, when approaching a lady, lower your expectations, and know that you can be accepted or rejected. If you have this mindset, you are good to go even when you are turned down.

2. Using pick-up lines.

Using pick-up lines, in my opinion, is not a good thing to consider when ready to propose love to a lady because it shows that you are not a man enough to rely on your word, personality and self-confidence to begin a discussion. It will be nicer if you do away with pick-up lines. For a piece of advice, always start your conversations with “Hello, my name is…” than using cheesy pick-up lines.

3. Approaching her at the wrong time and the place.

Forget about getting w positive response if you propose to a lady who’s not in her right of mind. Regardless of the venue, check around if it’s good to open a conversation with her.

Most importantly, it is vital not to dare approach a woman who’s in a hurry to get herself out of an uncomfortable situation or running late for work. Restaurants, drinking spots and parties are the best venues to approach a woman since they are more likely to open up in such settings.

4. Getting close to her while you’re drinking.

Dear men, don’t approach a lady when you are intoxicated because your mere sight alone will strike a nerve in her, talk more of proposing to her.

You could end up saying or doing something that will make you ever regret when you get tipsy and still go-ahead to approach a lady.

5. Congratulations on your successes.

From my point of view, the most effective antidote to unlock the hardened heart of a woman is to congratulate her on her successes because of this, you should not expect a positive response from any woman you approach in this manner unless she is interested in using you.

Never blow your trumpet in front of a lady you dream of having in your arms. Mind you, women think the other way round and she might read different meanings into what you say. The more you talk, the less they understand, remember and keep that.

6. Investing excessive time in her friendship.

Don’t focus solely on her and ignore her friend’s company when trying to win her. Most men engage themselves in additional conversation with a woman’s companion as a way of coping with their nervousness.

7. The last thing you want to do is to touch her.

When you’ve just approached a woman, it’s inappropriate to get too personal. When talking to a lady, it’s critical to maintain a certain amount of personal space. Stop caressing her just because she smiled and responded positively to your advances. When approaching a woman, keep a healthy distance unless she permits you.