Have you been ignored for years? Have your emotions been toyed with for months? Have you been cheated for long? Are you looking for ways to break away from a one-sided relationship?
1. Distract your attention
Hello dear one, let this be your anthem and slogan, distract your attention. Difficult? No! Stay indoors, go out for parties, avoid social media, get story books to read, watch scary movies, read graphics listen to weird and wack movies, do away with anything related to love and most importantly, stay away from your loved ones for months. Yes, it’s possible, nothing is unachievable.
At this point, put on your thinking cap, and consider only yourself, your emotions and nothing else.
My dear someone, trust me, it will pay!
2. Accept the fact that this person doesn’t need you
It will take you years to note this, yes, and the reason is simple love blinds!
After accepting the hard fact, it’s now time to work towards yourself to put yourself together. Let sleeping dogs lie. No! Don’t habour hatred for him or her. That’s how nature works, nobody will love and hate you.
You know it hurts when it’s a one-sided relationship, doing virtually any and everything just to keep the relationship going but isn’t getting same energy back.
You look out for yourself, you are saving yourself from stress.
3. Find someone who has the same issues as you and associates with
Recount how you feel to someone who is or has been in your shoes before, and take inspiration from him or her.
Pouring your heart out to someone who has little or no idea of a relationship is as waste as fetching water in a basket. I’m sure you know what it is, yeah, that’s cos 90° works and you wouldn’t want to do that. Isn’t?
Have you imagined how the depressed get out of depression? Yes, they get coached by people who have been depressed and freed before. It’s the best antidote you can get for yourself.
4. Look after yourself
Naturally, you start looking disappointed when your effort to get something for yourself is proving futile. At this point, you will start nursing negative ideas. Naturally, you will easily develop high blood pressure, you will grow lean and lose your beauty, especially my dear lovely women.
Soo soon? Have you forgotten you have a life to live? Have you forgotten that your world hasn’t come to an end? Who would consider lovin’ you if you fail to take care of your beautiful self?
Nobody right? Okay, then take good care of yourself, it’s hard yes, I know, we’ve all been through it but again, we survived. You can equal survive. It’s all about your mindset. At this point, I will say try, try and try again.
Smoking and drinking ain’t any way close to helping you solve this emotional problem. It only destroys your inner beauty, kills your kife desires and renders you useless at the long round. My dear someone, let not that happen, go easy on yourself. You deserve better.
5. Engage in some physical activity.
For men, there are a whole lot to do but with women it hurts. This isn’t the age of Pisces where you would live to play ampe, ludu, or any physical thing.
There’s still a way, step out, follow friends to parries, go to the library, and avoid social media. Do anything that wouldn’t trigger you to think about him.
Dear men, no need to mention much about things you would do physically. There is a whole lot!
The easiest is dancing and playing football.
6. Put this dream out of your mind
The dream of you living with him or her should be closed and a new chapter should be opened.
7. Don’t get angry
As a matter of fact, just as life is full of ups and downs, so is love full of failures and disappointments.
Don’t get angry either with yourself or him or her. He or she might also be ignored by someone they love. Such is life. You won’t get all you desire.
It doesn’t change anything, just take it easy on yourself and them.. know that nature works that way you can never beat or cheat it.
