It always feels good to be open and honest with your partner. It helps create trust and a solid relationship.
However, there are few conversations you should not have with your partner if you want to maintain the stability of your relationship.
Below are some conversations as a woman you should avoid until you’re very secure together.
1. Your dislike for his family
Your dislike for your partner’s family should be a secret since you wouldn’t like it if he criticizes your family. Even if some of your relatives are annoying, would like him to slam them. You can let him know if you’re having issues with them but do not criticize or let him know that you dislike ABC.
2. Past s³xual encounters
Never discuss your past sexual lifestyle with him just as you avoid conversation about your ex. Your partner will feel insecure if you keep telling him about your past sex life even if it was much better than what he is providing.
3. Shortcomings
Although everyone gets flaws, don’t just flow like a river when criticizing his shortcomings. Do not chastise him on daily basis. You can let him know that some things are irritating you but don’t point them out on regular basis.
4. Money issues
You are allowed to discuss everything concerning finances with him but do not make money an issue between the two of you. A lot of people have opinions when it comes to money matters especially if they have seen poverty while growing up. Money can trigger memories you cannot fathom at times. So try to not talk only about money and sense the direction of the conversation when you do. Change the topic if you have to.
